Build Islamic Prayer Routine: ROADMAP of 22-Year-Old

Building a prayer routine seems challenging until you understand the purpose of life. People always guide you to pray, to be safe from punishment. Which is true, but is this a right approach?

Allah doesn’t need your prayer. You need prayer for yourself. If you are missing them, your life will be far away from purpose.

For this, You need to understand that deep purpose of your existence. And how prayer will benefit you in your daily life.

With this approach, Prayer will become a way to find peace and strength in this busy world.

Not just prayer, but other religious duties like fasting is also for our own benefit.

Understand the Purpose of Prayer

Allah created humans to be His representatives on Earth, called Khalifah. In the Quran, Allah says:

“And it is He who has made you successors upon the earth and has raised some of you above others in degrees (of rank) that He may try you through what He has given you.”

Quran (6:165)

And we are given a purpose of life. In the Quran, Allah says:

“We sent among every nation a messenger, saying, ‘Worship Allah and avoid Taghut.“

Quran 16:36

Here Worship Allah doesn’t mean to lock yourself in a room, and offer prayers day and night.

Worship is to follow command of Allah in everything we do, like controlling our desires or helping the poor.

Read – Purpose of Life in Islam

But during this resistance against Taghut (anything that pulls you away from Allah). You will lose focus frequently.

Therefore, Prayer (Salah) is like a daily reset button. It keeps you connect to Allah, protects you from harmful influences. In result, you live a purposeful life.

Read : Tawakkul – Work Hard and Trust Allah

But building this habit is not a one night struggle. You will go through several stages. To keep them short and applicable, I will give you my own roadmap to build this Habit

Start Small and Be Consistent

Start with Obligatory Prayers only. That are 2+4+4+3+4 =17 Rakah of five obligatory prayers. (Witr is Sunnah but don’t miss it)

Here is the reference of praying compulsory prayers:

A Bedouin came to the Prophet (ﷺ) and said, “Tell me of such a deed as will make me enter Paradise, if I do it.” The Prophet (PBUH) said, “Worship Allah, and worship none along with Him, offer the (five) prescribed compulsory prayers perfectly, pay the compulsory Zakat, and fast the month of Ramadan.” The Bedouin said, “By Him, in Whose Hands my life is, I will not do more than this.” When he (the Bedouin) left, the Prophet (ﷺ) said, “Whoever likes to see a man of Paradise, then he may look at this man.”

Sahih al-Bukhari 1397

I am recommending this, because your mind will not allow you to prayer Nawafils in early stage, due to low faith level.

For example, There are total 12 Rakah of Zuhr Prayer, But Obligatory are only 4. You will stick with this and increase them with time.

Secondly, If you miss prayer due to sleep, offer it immediately. The prayer will be accepted according to this hadith:

… The Prophet got up when the edge of the sun had risen and said, ‘O Bilal! What about your statement?’ He replied, ‘I have never slept such a sleep.’ The Prophet said, ‘Allah captured your souls when He wished, and released them when He wished. O Bilal! Get up and pronounce the Adhan for the prayer.’ The Prophet performed ablution and when the sun came up and became bright, he stood up and prayed.

Sahih al-Bukhari 595

If you feel lazy to pray after a hard day, show some courage. Finish the prayer and ask Allah for Help. Don’t worry if you lose focus, it will boost you the next day.

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Consistency is the key here. But there are few things making you inconsistent. You must get rid of them.

Improve Focus by Removing Distractions

Evil world keep pulling you from purpose. They are welcomed by you in your habits you don’t even know.

The most common types are

• Bad Company of Friends
• Negative Use of Social Media
• Cultural Influenced Islamic Teachings

1- Bad Company of Friends

The Prophet (PBUH) said

“”A man is upon the religion of his friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends.”

Tirmidhi 2378

Are your friends holding you back from Prayers?

They are keeping you busy in addictions like playing cards, listening music, or watching Haram Movies.

These addictions will stop you from building prayer habit. Guide your friends to stop these habits. If they ignore, You must cutoff

It doesn’t mean to end everything with your friends. Just stopped spending time with them.

I know it is hard for you to leave your best company. Remember you’re doing this for Allah.

I also did same and now I was alone with myself in hostel room. But still there were other things holding me back and distracting me. It was social media.

2- Dark Side of Social Media

Endless scrolling and watching garbage content is not good for your brain. It gives you unhealthy dopamine rise with inner satisfaction during scrolling.

But do you feel good after scrolling for hours? Most Probably NO!

You need to stop this. Either delete all social media apps or tackle the algorithm to show Islamic content.

Delete social media is for those who lack discipline. Because they are lazy and can easily revert back to old habits. I also did this for some time. After some time, I was read to tackle the algorithm

Tackling the algorithm means removing bad content from your feed using features like “Not Interested”. There are more ways to do this. Similarly, you can engage with Islamic content. Doing this will only you positive content, that will motivate you.

Next step is to get true Islamic teachings.

3- Avoid Cultural Influenced Islamic Teachings

Most people just follow the path told by the society. They’re Stuck in peer pressure and doing what everyone else is doing.

Is everyone else around you following the right path? Most probably no! Reflect upon this verse from Holy Quran:

And if you obey most of those upon the earth, they will mislead you from the way of Allāh. They follow not except assumption, and they are not but misjudging.

Quran 6:16

Therefore, They can mislead you for sure. But you can find right guidance from Quran.

I am not talking about reading Arabic whole day, without understanding the meaning.

Read : Build Tawakkul in Difficult times

To get guidance, you must read it with translation. It will open new doors for you. Purpose of life will be more clear.

Create Prayer Routine with Triggers

Bad company of Friends and Late night scrolling must destroyed you sleep schedule. And Remember,

Sleeping Late = Waking Up Late

If you’re waking up late and missing morning prayer, than it is not because you lack something. Only formula to fix this is Sleeping Earlier.

Sleep earlier 30 minutes everyday until you reach 6-8 hours of time interval between fajr.

You will struggle in start, but it will make you never miss prayer.

Read : Connection of Tawakkul with Sabr

Organize Your Day around Prayer

Organizing your tasks around prayers is best form of productivity.

For example, after morning routine, doing a deep work session between Fajr and Zuhr. Spending time with family and Having Lunch between Zuhr and Asr. Going to Gym between Asr and Maghrib, etc.

This psychological trick will make your offer prayer, before doing certain tasks.

At the end of the day, review your daily routine and overcome mistakes the next day.

Read : Where Did God Come From?

Pray with Congregation

Praying alone in room is harder than praying with congregation, because you keep delaying.

Make a habit to reach mosque for prayer. Note down prayer timings and keep an eye on it.

It is not a choice to prayer in congregation. It is a strict order from Prophet (PBUH) that:

… By Him in Whose Hand my soul is I was about to order for collecting firewood (fuel) and then order Someone to pronounce the Adhan for the prayer and then order someone to lead the prayer then I would go from behind and ==burn the houses of men== who did not present themselves for the (compulsory congregational) prayer …

Sahih al-Bukhari 644

This hadith clearly explains the importance of congregational prayer. Don’t miss it!

Conclusion

By understanding the connection of prayer with purpose of life, We know that prayer is for our own benefit. Helping us by staying connected to our Creator and live a meaningful life.

Start with the five daily prayers, and focus on consistency. Try to cut out distractions like bad company or excessive social media use, and fill that space with positive influences.

Organize your day around prayer times to boost productivity. Joining a congregation will strengthen your commitment and help you stay focused. Over time, these small steps will bring peace and resilience through the power of prayer in your daily life.